Why did I fail to abandon the “happily ever after” promise?
It's hard to deal with feeling unable to maintain a happy status relationship.
When we decide to break a cycle and start another, it doesn't mean that we will put aside the frustration of not being able to stay in the relationship. We fail as a couple, we fail as people, and ultimately we fail ourselves.
It's almost incomprehensible to look back at history that was left behind and start over.
Crying, feeling alone and the feeling of being lost are some of the feelings that go through my mind and my body, which feels it in a real way. We literally get sick, physically and psychologically.
But I'm not the only one who went through or is going through this, many of the readers, at this time, are reading and experiencing what I'm describing, and that comforts me, makes me believe that I'm not that alone and that, at the very least, an hour will pass.
Looking for a hobby, old and true friends, a hobby or a good read are some of the temporary solutions that can help. Over time, everything settles down and the heart continues with its “patch”, still lame, it is a fact, but rehearsing a fresh start.
Looking at life again and trying to believe in love is a natural human tendency, but it takes courage to surrender. The fear of hurting what is still being treated with patches is not an easy task, but it is possible, it is part of nature and the cycle of life.
Strolling through the park, walking hand in hand, watching a movie, letting a fight happen and then making up… are desired programs when we are healing.
Meanwhile, it's important to really believe in the ability to rebuild and believe in yourself, knowing that it's possible to go on for a while alone, loving yourself and respecting your own limit.
No one was born to be alone, loneliness kills, makes you sick...even if it's a plant or a pet, you have to have a company.
You have to believe in love, be it short or late, the saying goes that one love heals with another, I think the poet who wrote that was absolutely right. The poet just forgot to say that by allowing yourself a new love, you are totally vulnerable again, vulnerable to love, to love.
I believe in the sun, the rainbow and the blooming of flowers on a spring morning, when you look at the clear blue sky and breathe hope.
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I believe that love deserves a new chance, even if it is for itself, it must follow. I always end my texts with this word and it has never been so sincere and necessary:
"Let's keep going!"
