Every day is probably the day to celebrate something important. Whether it's a historic date or a symbolic date, celebrating is necessary. As well as being grateful to be able to be here celebrating.
And speaking of being grateful, did you know that there is an international day to celebrate this feeling? It's International Thank You Day, celebrated on January 11th. The date came about at the initiative of users of social networks, and its origin is unknown.
Whatever the reason, origin and history of that day, it is enough to know that it is dedicated to thanking everyone who is part of our existence, making it better just because they are by our side or in our life. On this date, what matters is saying “thank you” to people, whether they are known or strangers. Distributing a little sympathy and gratitude and expressing it in a direct and friendly way makes us better, even for a day.
Why do we say “thank you”?
We are used to thanking people on “automatic”, saying the classic “thank you”. But do you know the origin of this term?
It has nothing to do with the idea of ​​being forced or coerced. It is the participle of the verb to oblige, from the Latin “obligare” = “to bind on all sides; bind morally”. It means that we are bound to someone by the bonds of thanksgiving in virtue of a kindness or favor done to us. Expresses an acknowledgment for this. It is a reduction of the expression: “I am obliged to you”, that is, “I am connected to you for the favor you have done for me”.
It doesn't have to be just one day.
Although we have a special date to celebrate the International Day of Thank You, how about practicing now? And every day. Positive, empathetic words to others are also good for us. It's that famous exchange of energies and the famous return of the Universe. He gives us back what we give away. How about, then, adopt not only "thank you" but "please", "excuse me". Say nice things to people, because we don't know how their day was, what they faced, the weight of the load they carry with them in everyday life. So be light, friendly, grateful, courteous.
Extra: is it thanks? Thanks?
Finally, a grammar tip, so you don't make any more mistakes: "thank you" agrees in gender and number with the person you thank.
So, if you are a woman, the correct thing is to say “thank you”. If it's a man, "thank you". And did you know that this term also exists in the plural? When it comes to saying thank you on behalf of multiple people, it's okay to say "Thanks" or "Thanks" (if it's an all-female group). Of course it's a less common occurrence, but here's the hint.
Nowadays
Is that you? Have you ever said “thank you” to someone today? If you haven't already, try it! It's still free to be kind and grateful! And believe me: it's only good! Try it, take advantage of this social media initiative, in the midst of so many unpleasant things that we have seen lately in these environments. Lots of fights, hate speech, polarization because of politics, religion, ideologies and a host of other factors.
Creating a day to express a positive feeling shows that there are still people concerned about the well-being of the other and spreading good vibes around the world. To these people, our “thank you!”
