I've heard stories of couples who maintain the relationship for the sake of the children, and also those who, in front of their children, pretend everything is fine and then, away from them, fight, offend and condemn each other. It turns out that, in the mind and mainly in the hearts of children, the reality is different. Children feel in their hearts, regardless of their age, the conflict or harmony between their parents.
Logically that children are more harmed by the disharmony of both, as they still do not know how to deal with their feelings, which often ends up manifesting as fever, illness or physical imbalance.
Children whose parents live in harmony benefit, as they feel safer and freer to experience the development of its phases and its learning.
When a child does not fully experience its phases, becomes an adult looking for something he lacks, feels incomplete and is a great candidate to enter into a conflicting relationship, placing the responsibility on the partner for making him or her happy and, who knows, for generating children from this relationship context. Thus, the wheel does not stop, until someone harmonizes and ends this cycle of lack and imbalance.
That's why the best gift parents can give their children is to keep the relationship balanced, helping each other and resolving conflicts that arise in harmony.
And, for those who do not yet have children, the recommendation will always be that there is a preparation for fatherhood and motherhood, since today we have many professionals at our disposal with specialties in different areas, contributing to the formation of a new society.
May children be the fruit of the healthy and happy union of responsible and aware adults.
